My parents divorced when I was young and my brother and I grew up living with our dad. Dad’s really loving and supportive in general, but sometimes I think he went the extra mile to try and bridge the Mom gap when we were with him. Out of the blue one day he announced that my grandmother had always had beautiful skin. He went on to add that she was religious about moisturizing. I didn’t know where this random thought was coming from, so I just listened. Then it got personal: “It’s really important, Aimee – you need to moisturize.” I didn’t know what to do with this new self-care directive, so I…